Thinking sheet · Feelings and kindness

How Big Is My Feeling?

Rate a feeling from tiny to huge on a ladder, and match each size with something that helps.

Grades
K–3
Time
about 15 minutes
Kids practice
naming feelings, self-regulation, matching strategies

What kids do

“Feelings come in sizes. How big is yours right now?”

  1. The feeling:
  2. Its size (5 = huge, 1 = tiny)
  3. What helps at each size
  4. Right now my feeling is a … and I will…

How to run it

  • Model with a small worry and a big worry.
  • Big feelings need big helpers: a grown-up, a break, deep breaths.
  • Keep it in a desk for quick check-ins.

Talk about it

  • What makes a feeling grow?
  • What makes it shrink?
  • Can a happy feeling be too big?

Take it further

Make a size ladder for excitement.

Pairs well with

Free for home and classroom use. Print as many copies as you need.

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