SEL worksheet · Conflict resolution

Peacemaker Secret Code

Use the number code to uncover three peacemaker tips, like “Cool down first,” then explain how one could help in a real disagreement.

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Grade level
Grades 2–5
Time
About 20 minutes
Answer key
Yes, page 2 of the PDF
Kids practice
Conflict resolution, I-messages, Compromise, Active listening

What kids do

Printed on the sheet:

  1. In this code, A = 1, B = 2, C = 3 and so on up to Z = 26. Write the letter that goes with each number.
  2. Crack the code. Write a letter on each line.
  3. Which tip would have helped in a disagreement you had? Why?

Teacher tip

Post the decoded tips in your peace corner.

How to use it

  • Practice when everyone is calm, not in the middle of a real conflict.
  • Use the same words from the sheet when a real conflict comes up.
  • Read scenarios aloud for younger kids and let them answer with a drawing.

Watch for

Bullying is not a conflict between equals. Make sure kids know to tell a grown-up about it.

Talk about it

  • What is a fair solution here?
  • How might someone else see it differently?

Take it further

Train a few kids as class peacemakers who help classmates use the steps.

US Letter, prints well in black and white. Free for home and classroom use: print as many copies as you need.

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