SEL worksheet · Friendship and teamwork

What Matters Most in a Friend?

Rank eight friend qualities, from kind and honest to funny and loyal, explain your top picks and think about the friend you are.

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Grade level
Grades 3–5
Time
About 20 minutes
Answer key
Not needed: answers vary
Kids practice
Friendship skills, Teamwork, Conversation skills, Cooperation

What kids do

Printed on the sheet:

  1. There are no wrong answers! Rank these friend qualities from 1 (matters most to me) to 8 (matters least), then tell why.
  2. A good listener
  3. Likes the same things
  4. Fair when we play
  5. Which quality do YOU show best as a friend?

Words on this sheet

Friend qualityMy rankKindHonestFunnyLoyalKeeps secrets

Teacher tip

There is no right ranking. Let kids compare and explain.

How to use it

  • Pair kids with someone they don’t usually work with.
  • Practice friendly phrases out loud before kids write them.
  • Read scenarios aloud for younger kids and let them answer with a drawing.

Watch for

Kids who are often left out. Use these sheets to build in partners on purpose.

Talk about it

  • What makes someone a good friend?
  • Have you ever been in a moment like this? What happened?

Take it further

Hold a “buddy of the week” where partners eat lunch or do a job together.

US Letter, prints well in black and white. Free for home and classroom use: print as many copies as you need.

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